Domestic Violence Safety Plan

You may not have control  over another person’s violent behavior, but you do have choices on how  you respond.  Victim’s of domestic violence can take steps to increase  their safety and the safety of their children.

The Black Hawk County Attorney’s Office in connection  with the Waterloo Police Department and Seeds of Hope established a Domestic Abuse Response Team (DART).  This team is  comprised of a prosecutor specializing in domestic abuse cases as well  as a victim advocate and a police officer.  The goal of the individuals  assigned to this unit is to stop the violence, enhance victim safety and  hold the abusers accountable for their actions.  The prosecution of  these cases is priority within our office.
 

Safety at Home

  • Develop a safety plan and discuss it with your children. 
  • Review the plan as often as possible.
  • Change the locks and install devices to secure your  windows.
  • Locks may be available at Seeds of Hope
  • Make sure your children's school, day-care center or camp know who is authorized to pick up your children.
  • Tell your  neighbors and landlord that your abuser no longer lives there and ask  them to call the police if they see him     or her near your home.
  • Emergency     cell phone to dial 911 is available at Seeds of Hope or the Waterloo     Police Department.

 

Safety in Public or at Work

  • If you have an order of protection, keep it with you at all times.
  • Inform building security and coworkers you trust of  your situation. 
  • If possible, provide a photograph of your abuser to building security.
  • Vary your routes to and from work and arrange for someone to escort you to your car, bus or train.
  • Plan what to do in various situations if the abuser confronts you.

 

Safety during Volatile Domestic Violence Incident

  • If an argument  seems unavoidable, move to a room or area with easy access to an exit -  not a bathroom,         kitchen, or anywhere near weapons.
  • Identify which door, window, stairwell or elevator offers the quickest way out of the home and practice your route.
  • Have a bag packed and ready. Keep it in an undisclosed but accessible place where you can retrieve it quickly.
  • Find neighbors you can tell about the violence and ask that they call the police if they hear a disturbance.
  • Devise a code word to use with your children, family, and friends when you need the police.
  • Decide where you will go if you have to leave, even if you do not think it will come to that.
  • Use your instincts and judgement. Consider giving the abuser what he or she wants to defuse a dangerous situation.
  • You have a right to protect yourself when you are in danger. 
  • You do not deserve to be battered or threatened.

 

Checklist - What you may want to take if you have to leave

  1. Identification - driver's license, Social Security card, passport, green card, public assistance ID, work permit, etc.
  2. Order of Protection
  3. Birth certificates - yours and your children's
  4. Clothing
  5. Lease, rental agreement, or house deed
  6. Insurance papers
  7. House and car keys
  8. Medications
  9. Jewelry/saleable objects
  10. Address book
  11. Divorce papers
  12. School records
  13. Toys